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Date Added
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Dear Rabbi Milgram:
Daniel Schwartz
Healing 12/05
New web site section
for the Guild of Jewish Healthcare
Professionals
Interfaith Teaching, 4/06/06
Articles written as
guest rabbi for Christian clergy magazine called Living Pulpit:
Curriculum
9/5/05
CAJE Rapid Response
Hurricane Curriculum: The
Katrina Disaster
Life Cycle
11/2/04
Doctoral thesis
Cross-cultural analysis of rites of passage for youth undertaken by
R'Goldie in preparation for writing Make Your Own Bar/Bat Mitzvah. Looks
at anthropology, psychology, economics, theology, bible, and history.
Newspaper
9/5/05
Living Judaism is a column that provides regular guidance about
finding meaning for living through Judaism. Readers gain skills in
understand how to achieve emotional satisfaction, intellectual expansion
and spiritual connection through living as a Jew.
Stories
7/13/04
Rebbe on the Road:
Volga River, Russia
Life Cycle
5/14/04
Intergenerational Yizkor Story, explaining practice of yarzeit candle
via special moment with R'Goldie's mom, who has Alzheimers, one of her
sons, and a guest from Russia. Written for UJC Orchard.
Life Cycle
4/30/04
Deepen your
understanding of the importance of balancing work and study and why the
mystic Rabbi Shimon bar Yochai is associated with
Lag b'Omer.
Holy Days
4/5/04
Rebbe on the Road:
Passover and South Africa 2004
Holy Days
3/1/04
The Masks Jews Wear:
Reb Goldie's
Purim Guide
Halachah
2/10/04
Why do we
hang a mezuzah at an angle?
Stories
1/4/04
Spiritual travelogue, Budapest. Covers teaching a bar/bat mitzvah
educator retreat for educators from India, Czech Republic, Serbia,
Croatia, Bulgaria, etc. Some quite surprising moments.
Holy Days
8/13/03
Timeless
Tisha B'Av, a container for infinite grief, a broken kaddish.
Stories
8/6/03
Spiritual
travelogue Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Valencia and
Halachah
8/13/03
Reb Goldie's
responsa on both gay and lesbian marriage and the issue of ordaining
of homosexual clergy.
Leadership
4/22/03
Principles of Rebbetude. What is this old/new kind of rabbinate that
builds vital communities, treasures depth of study, deepens practice and
restores spirituality to Jewish life? This paper was written by Reb Goldie
for a conference sponsored by Bard College to describe the ethics,
principles and philosophy of the rabbinate which she recommends and to
which she aspires. This link takes you to the site of Ohalah.org where the
paper has been published.
Life Cycle
3/1/03
Announcing the
B-Mitzvah [R]evolution! An entire site devoted to Bar/Bat Mitzvah
preparation for students and parents. Reb Goldie is also available to
teach workshops and retreats based on this effort for communities.
Stories
2/8/03
Spiritual travelogue of South Eastern US and South Africa, teaching
tour and visits to sites of interest.
Life Cycle
1/2/03
Breathing while in labor - a Jewish meditation model.
Life Cycle
1/2/03
Why do we not say
mazel tov to someone who is pregnant? What does one traditionally
say?
Holy Days
1/1/03
Guide to creating a
Tu BiShevat Seder (and story).
Meditation
1/1/03
Please be careful
when picking study sites and teachers. Here is a carefully researched
article by Rabbi Josh Simon about the
Kaballah Center. If you have newer experience that contradicts this
posting, please send.
Holy Days
11/1/02
"Reframing
Hanukkah Gelt" joins a collection of eight practices to help
spiritually vitalize your Hanukkah.
Shabbat
9/9/02
Grasping
Shabbat's Mystical and Erotic Spirituality, An Introduction.
[Previously posted, link now repaired]
Stories
9/10/02
Romance and
Challenge at a
Hassidic Wedding
Holy Days
6/4/02
New and Revised
Teachings, Stories, Experiences for
Life Cycle
7/29/02
Creating a Jewish
ritual for a
miscarriage.
Stories
9/9/02
Summer 2002
Spiritual Travelogue
of our Southwest Trip
Prayer
6/24/02
A home ritual to go
with lighting a yartzeit candle in memory of a loved one, for the
anniversary of a death or at
yizkor.
Torah
6/21/02
Making Sense of the
Red Heifer Parsha. The Torah portion takes seriously how hard it is to
come into contact with a corpse. Can we reclaim anything from this for
contemporary Judaism? Maybe yes.
Life Cycle
6/21/02
Suicide is so hard to cope with for everyone who immediately knew the
person, including the rabbi.
Life Cycle
5/15/02
Guide to Creating a
Deeply Spiritual Jewish
Wedding
Life Cycle
5/15/02
Working with the
tradition: Bringing a child into the covenant:
Baby naming and circumcision rituals
Holy Days
5/15/02
Yizkor: Honoring the Memory of Loved Ones
Holy Days
4/16/02
Preparing the Heart and Mind for Shavuot
Holy Days
01/02/02
Fruit for Thought:
Understanding
Tu Bi-Shevat and mystical rituals associated with it, also a real-life
Tu Bi-Shevat story from our trip to South Africa.
All
12/5/01
Ten "Reb"binnic Guidelines for Spiritual Survival during this
time of exasperating crisis and trauma at home and in the Middle East.
Holy Days
11/18/01
What is
menorah mysticism? And the Kabbalists' significance of colors for the
candles and the sephirot. Life
Cycle
11/18/01
Aaron Roffman's
family sponsored Reb Goldie as a scholar-in-residence during his bar
mitzvah weekend at Adath Shalom, a conservative congregation near
Parsippany, N.J.
Prayer
9/16/01 Full
Text of 911
Service of Consolation and Hope just developed and offered here in for
our neighborhood in Jersey City. Holy
Days
9/5/01
Wisdom ritual for
Shabbat Sukkot
Holy Days
9/5/01
Dancing with the Torah on
Simchat Torah,
Life Cycle
8/22/01 A
ritual guide for
dedicating a Jewish home
Bibliography
8/21/01
Updated and annotated bibliography on Jewish spirituality.
Holy Days
7/20/01
How you can
associate the welcoming in of the ancestors ritual on Sukkot (Ushpizin)
with the
directions of the compass.
Shabbat and
06/24/01
Model Program:
Work and Sacred Time. A workshop you can run yourself in your own
community looks at time, sacredness, hatzi kaddish, multi-tasking and your
life.
Holy Days
04/3/01
The
Spirituality of Fear: A Study Guide Drawing on Jewish Sources about
Fear drawn from the book of Exodus.
Holy Days
04/03/01
Background on Rosh
Chodesh and Reb Goldie's approach to leading a meeting of a
Rosh Chodesh group
Life Cycle
02/13/01
Spiritual Mentoring
for Couples Part I: Cultivating
Spiritual Intimacy.
Mitzvot
5/21/01
Keeping Kosher: What would it mean to reclaim this as a spiritual
practice? How do environmental issues relate to keeping kosher? Is action
indicated?
Torah,
5/21/01
Reproductive Bio-ethics. Reb Goldie's rabbinical students at The
Academy for Jewish Religion respond to teen questions on difficult ethics
issues such as fetal reduction, artificial insemination, adoptive children
looking for their biological parents and much more.
Life Cycle
02/06/01
Under a grant from
the Nathan Cummings Foundation, Reb Goldie is developing a special new
section of resources for adding spirituality to the bar/bat mitzvah
experience.
Stories
02/06/01
Grandpa Sam's Silly
But Sadly True
Bar Mitzvah Story
Prayer
12/17/00
Spirituality of Tefillin: A meditation on relationships to be done
with or without tefillin, also two humorous tefillin stories.
Mitzvot
11/30/00
Play with a full
deck - Reb Goldie's page of
mitzvah cards helps readers take a deep accounting of your life from a
Jewish point of view.
Holy Days
11/30/00
Reclaiming the
dreidl, a game for adults and children that can actually advance your
spirituality. Check out this unusual approach!
Holy Days
11/11/00
Candlelighting - What are the different kinds of candlelighting in
Judaism.
Ritual
10/18/00
How does a
mezuzzah help keep blood off of the doorposts of your home?
Sukkot
10/11/00
How to use a lulav and etrog and what to do with the etrog when Sukkot
is over. Also a five part
Sukkot section exists with stories and rituals to add spirituality to
your Sukkah experience.
Prayer
10/11/00
A
Jewish meditation for your morning practice.
Holy Days
10/2/2000
"Teshuvah Walks" Every day between Rosh HaShannah and Yom Kippur
Reb Goldie engages in a Jewish meditation walk to prepare for a session of
teshuvah, relationship repair. This is a journal of such a walk.
Holy Days
10/3/2000
"Yom Kippur at Home" Rural Jews, homebound Jews and bored Jews write
to Reb Goldie asking how to observe Yom Kippur at home. This is her
response.
Holy Days
9/27/2000
"I forget, what is Rosh HaShannah really about?"
Stories
9/10/2000
Cross Europe Spiritual Travelogue: Reb Goldie, Hubbatzin Barry and her
younger son Mark Beitman depict in six internet postings Jewish life,
spiritual growth and issues encountered during their summer teaching and
travels in Ireland, France, Belgium, Germany and Holland.
Prayer
9/1/2000
In response to a
reader's request, this is a
step by step spiritual guide to home morning spiritual practices and
is also appropriate for daily (shacharit) and most of shabbat morning
services.
Torah
4/12/00
Miriam and Tza'ra-at - A Notion. Re-reading Tazria/Metzorah, a new
vision of what had happened to Miriam emerges. See what YOU think!
Prayer
1/31/00
A Caregiver's Kaddish When a patient dies, something holy and
healing for the caregiving staff to considering doing.
Stories
2/24/00
Sacred Story about a Torah Reb Goldie discovers a small community
in the Ukraine and their connection to the practice of reading from the
Torah.
Torah
2/24/00
Life Cycle
11/29/99
Rituals for Divorce and
new wording for a Jewish divorce document ("get")
Holy Days
1/31/00
Passover Ideas: Rituals and Meditations
for enhancing the spirituality of your Pesach.
for enhancing the
spirituality of your Pesach.
Prayer
11/29/99
Prayer
12/7/99
Life Cycle
August 2, 1999
How About a
Cyber Bar/Bat Mitzvah: Reb Goldie and her son created a web site for
his bar mitzvah which is a model bar/bat mitzvah web site. We'd love your
feedback on this site, its spiritual goals and structure...
Holy Days
11/29/99
Hanukkah Ideas - lots and lots of pages including Eight Nights of
Ideas for a Spiritual Hanukkah; Adult Dreidel Game, Texts about Light for
Study
Stories
12/7/99
Forks in the Road: Story of Reb Goldie's visit with a Bedouin Feminist
and the ethical dilemnas which ensue
Stories
Revised Aug 18, 2001
The Etrog Grove: Guess who was a teenager negotiating a trip to S'fat?
Mysticism
11/29/99
The Road to Reb
Nachman's Grave....Story of Reb Goldie's
visit to Reb Nachman's grave in Uman, The Ukraine
Stories
8/1/99
Spiritual
Travelog: An accidental mistake in data entry results in Reb Goldie
and her husband Barry's travel notes being sent to everyone in her email
data base. When we apologize over a hundred people write back saying
"don't stop!" This is the entire collection of 43 travel entries covering
our summer '99 cross country trip and teaching tour of over twenty-three
states including Alaska and parts of Canada.
Holy Days
05/16/2007
Sephirotic Omer
Counting:
After exploring
freedom on Passover we begin a 49 day process of preparing for Shavuot.
Learn an ancient Jewish mystical technique for cultivating consciousness,
the kind which might lead to valuable new awareness!
Life Cycle
5/13/99
Alternative ritual for an unveiling A reader writes saying the family
doesn't relate easily to Hebrew liturgy, what alternative is there for an
unveiling grounded in Jewish tradition?
Prayer
5/6/99
Torah
5/10/99
Mitzvot
05/16/07
Ideas for
wording a gift note when you are making a gift to tzedakah in honor or
memory of someone. In this case Reb Goldie and her husband Barry are
giving to Kosovo refugee relief via the JDC to honor cousins who are
getting married.
Meditation
4/24/99
Reb Goldie's essay
on
What Is Jewish Meditation? Includes hyperlinks to different
types of Jewish meditation.
Prayer
4/19/99
Praying for Healing: A Possible Approach. Learn about the traditional
prayer for healing and try a guided healing meditation which draws upon
the Kabbalists' metaphor of "The River of Light". Holistic and calming.
Life Cycle
4/13/99
Ideas for creating a spiritual conversion ritual, written in response
to a reader's request for how to go to mikveh with someone who is
converting; includes a section of
reflections on circumcision.
Life Cycle
3/13/99
Help Me with Kaddish
Stories
3/13/99
Encounters with a South Africa Tzadik
Torah
3/15/99
How to Lead Group Aliyot
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Holy Days
8/06
Just answer me this, what’s the point of the Jewish holidays and all the
chest-banging? If there’s an important point, despite graduating Hebrew
school some fifteen years ago, I still don’t get it. I hope you’ll
answer me in your column because I’m loving Buddhism and sure didn’t get
much from Judaism. Thank you.
Response from R'Milgram to Daniel can be read
here
Life Cycle
7/06
What Does Judaism Have to Say about Organ Donation?
http://www.beliefnet.com/story/196/story_19662_1.html
Article above appears on Beliefnet. This can be read along with my
letter exchange with Rabbi Avi Shafran of Agudath Israel of America on
the topic here
Travelogue
4/20/06
Rebbe and Hubbatzin on the Road
Travelogue, Israel adventures and
teachings on the term hafokh from the Exodus narrative and Purim
megillah.
Sound Files
2/06
Melodies by R'Goldie for
prayers found in the Prayer chapter of her newest book, Meaning and
Mitzvah:
1. Modeh/Modah Ani
2.
Kadosh Kadosh Kadosh
Healing
4/6/06
Focusing and Judaism:
Dr. Gene Gendlin has discovered a method for attaining what the Torah
describes as "The Still Small Voice", this article shows how Focusing
Technique can help us develop an a satisfying inner and inter-personal
spiritual attention.
Meaning Symbols in Judaism
Reclaiming Mikveh: Water as a Portal to
Higher Consciousness
Body: The Instrument
Column
Spiritual Travelogue of Project Kesher's 165 women from Belarus to
Siberia, Reb Goldie & some 100 Western women visiting communities along
the Volga.
Upsherin: Coming of Age Ritual for a Three Year Old.
Spiritual Travelogue with a mother-son ritual issue and a story of how an
atrocity born by a woman in South Africa becomes part of her process of
liberation.
a touch of Washington State and Oregon. Postings 1-4.
Rosh HaShannah and Yom Kippur
A kaddish-based model of expression.
A guide for making our way toward Sinai.
Aaron co-developed the Shabbat services with his Rabbi, Cantor, parents
and Reb Goldie. Then Aaron decided instead of a bar-mitzvah speech to work
on
7 group aliyot for the Torah reading. Come see how spirituality
and bar [and bat] mitzvah are perfect together!
What's it to you?
through placing of a mezuzah or mezuzot (pl)
Holy Days
A dialogue guide to expanding spirituality in relationship developed for a
workshop in Napa, Ca.
Mitzvot
Please share you ideas, experiences, teachings, creative approaches
by writing to
Rebgoldiem@aol.com.
Looking forward to learning from you!
How is this a spiritual practice? What does Jewish mysticism say about
this?
A visit to Shargorad in the Ukraine reveals the long lost secret.
Reb Goldie answers the request of a friend who did go to religious school
yet as an adult finds herself still wondering.
August 18, 1999
Reb Goldie is asked for help in handling sadness and loss after a friend's
grandmother dies and has been buried without a Jewish ritual. A
compassionate, creative action is suggested along with a full translation
and mystical interpretation of the Jewish funeral prayer, "El Maleh
Rachamim", as well as "Kaddish."
During travels to teach for the Jewish community and visit family in South
Africa, Reb Goldie tours the former Apartheid prison on Robben Island with
a prisoner who was interned there with Nelson Mandela.
Step by step description of a wondrous method of experiencing and/or
leading Torah reading.
enjoy!