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Creating a Great Experience at Torah Reading
by
Rabbi Goldie Milgram, author of
Reclaiming Judaism as a Spiritual Practice, Meaning and
Mitzvah, & Make Your Own Bar/Bat Mitzvah
after reading this section click
here for more examples
Torah reading seems intended to be a high point of a
service. If your synagogue service is like mine was as a child, then it may be
precisely the opposite.
The group of men clustered around the Torah during Saturday
morning services used to be my cue to mentally check out. They seemed to be members
of some kind of special club that had its own code, signals and duties.
Seven men would each be given an "aliyah," a chance
to go up to the Torah, say a blessing and be honored witnesses to the week's rapidly
mumbled reading. What were the rest of us supposed to be doing during that time?
This posting gives some suggestions on how to remedy all that.
A delightful, powerful tradition is emerging that lets everyone be fully present and
participatory!
When the words of the chapters assigned to a particular week enter our consciousness and
our "soul stream," we can learn something new and interesting about ourselves as
individuals, families, humans and peoples. This type of new awareness
can be termed "revelation." It is Judaism at its best -- exciting,
meaningful, growthful.
The Torah is read in portions sequentially through the year. Each
of these portions (called a "parsha") is given a name based on a key phrase from
the text. For the purpose of our discussion let's look at Exodus 18, the parsha
known as "Yitro."
Parshat Yitro we find Moses having trouble being an effective
C.E.O. Fortunately, his father-in-law, Yitro (mistranslitered often as Jethro), has
occasion to bring Moses' wife and sons out to join
the community in the wilderness. Moses has a heart-to-heart conversation with his
father-in-law, who happens to also be an experienced Midianite priest, about how difficult
he is finding leadership and the people's need for him to personally settle all their
disputes. Yitro commences to give Moses one of
civilization's earliest recorded management consultations, including instructions on how
to set up a seventy-member governance team.
So, there you are at a Torah service where the above portion is to be read. The
person leading asks everyone who is wrestling with leadership issues to come up to the
Torah to be part of a group aliyah. Perhaps it happens that you are struggling with
such issues in your life, so you join the surprisingly large stream of people heading up
to the Torah.
A. This is a moment to honor the place that leadership issues
occupy in your life, to realize how human this is.
B. Perhaps you also reflect upon how you are a leader for those
in your life or what you might ask an elder like Yitro.
C. What advice might Yitro offer to you?
D. Notice who has chosen to come up for this aliyah. These
might be important dialogue partners later, perhaps
during refreshments after services. (Engage with these individuals gently, matters
of the soul can be very tender. Be understanding should someone prefer privacy.)
Typically you will be offered a chance to place a kiss with a tallit (prayer
shawl) fringe at the place where the reading starts and to recite a blessings. The
same thing happens at the end of the reading. This is reminiscent of kissing the
mezuzah, which also contains a portion of the Torah inside. What does this kiss mean to
you? For me it means a moment of spiritual intimacy has taken place. My life has
been touched and moved by this contact with the Torah of our people. It is a moment of sacred awareness and we
consciously seal it with a kiss.
The service leaders often gives a blessing to those who came up for the
aliyah. This tradition is known as a "mishabeirakh." In the case of
our example above, we might be blessed to receive the insight, kindness, strength and
courage we need to be good leaders, to be able to recognize the great, hidden consultants
in our midst.
What blessing would you want to receive?
Here's a brief "how to" guide for creating group aliyot:
l. The person leading the Torah service must study the parsha (Torah portion)
carefully. Take note of verses that jump out with meaning for you, the leader. Is
there a way of reading those verses that will speak in a healing or particularly
meaningful way to a common aspect of the human experience? If so, then you have
arrived at a possible theme for one of your aliyot.
2. Most communities utilizing this approach have three such theme aliyot, inviting
everyone to come up to the Torah to whom the theme of that aliyah holds personal
meaning. It is helpful to briefly summarize what the three themes will be before the
first group is called up. This lets people prepare themselves emotionally.
Most leaders emphasize that people can come up for one or two or all three, whatever speaks to their spiritual condition.
3. The first group is then called up. The reader indicates the place where the
aliyah begins in the scroll, so that those who want can touch that place with a fringe
from a tallit (prayer shawl).
4. Next everyone who came up for an aliyah chants an opening blessing
together. There are several forms of this blessing now in use, from the very
traditional to those that are more inclusive and gender-balanced.
5. In communities where few people understand Hebrew, instead of a lengthy chanting
or "leyning" of all the words of each portion, the service leader will first
give a summary of the portion. The reader will then chant the verses that most apply
to the theme of the aliyah.
6. The closing blessing is chanted and then, the Torah service leader or a
designated heper will give a blessing, or mishabeirakh, specifically formulated
to empower the healing, awareness, or action implied by the theme of the aliyah.
7. Everyone who came up for an aliyah then returns to their seats. The theme
of the next aliyah is described and those who choe it come up to the Torah. Even if
someone came up for the first aliyah, it is important for that person to return to their
seat with what they learned and then decide whether to go up for another, as well as to
recite the blessings again.
8. It is also an important tradition to include aliyot for such specific ritual
moments as prayers for healing of oneself or others, blessings for a couple entering a
committed relationship ("ufruf"), taking of a Jewish name, or a prayer of
gratitude for having narrowly escaped death (such as a car accident, major surgery,
lifting of life-threatening depressing, which is known as "bentsching gomel"). One aliyah is usually focused on healing and
sometimes the number of aliyot is expanded to allow for other special needs such as
recognizing community
leaders or the naming of a baby.
9. What if it's a bat/bar mitzvah? It is wonderful to use group aliyot at such
events. Bar/bat mitzvah students can be encouraged and assisted in developing their
own themes from the weekly portion. Alternatively, sometimes it works well to invite
family members and friends to come up to the Torah in affinity groups. For example,
"Would all my aunts and uncles please come up for this aliyah," or "I invite my grandparents up for the first
aliyah," or "Would everyone who goes to school with me who has already had their
bar/bat mitzvah please come up for the last aliyah" or "Would my parents'
friends please come up for this aliyah, I would like to honor your important place in the
life of our family," etc.
The "themed group aliyah" is a method of spiritual empowerment
appropriate to the times in which we live. Increasingly Jews seek out spiritual
leaders who will help a person to connect to the tradition in meaningful ways and grow
personally through the process.
However, even with desired change there is loss. Losses
to consider in adopting this approach which come to mind include a) That special feeling
involved in having one's own solo aliyah - pride in our skills and presence as we chant
out the blessings for all to hear and b) Letting go of the order of calling up Jews
by the ancient Temple categories of Cohen (priests), Levi (Temple workers), Israel
(regular people). Some religious communities have been inadvertently preserving
these categories out of habit, others hope to reinstate the sacrificial system someday and
so are thus deliberately preserving a record of the men who family origins may bear such a
history.
This year and in years to come, "as the Scroll turns" CLICK
HERE for examples of group aliyot for more of the parshiot (chapters of Torah). Your
reflections, explorations and suggestions on refining and applying this approach to
experiencing Torah reading at services will be most
welcome. Reb Goldie
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